QUOTE (swidman @ 8/13/09 1:36pm)

Wow, you know, sometimes situations change. If you really need to know my personal family business, drop me a line and I'll tell you what's up.
So to answer your question, yes, these plans came up after I said I was available. If you don't like, too fording bad.
Also, I didn't say I wouldn't be available for the entire day. I can still draft on the date we specified.
I don't give a flying poopy what your family plans are as long as they do not effect mine. And your constant rearranging of everyone else plans to fit yours effects mine. I, myself, have to make arrangements for drafts. If it's gonna be in the early am, then I need to make sure to get up and make my family a breakfast and all their needs met, so I can devote the time needed to my fellow league members to try to complete a draft. Or maybe I can take more than the two minutes YOU recommend we use a timer becaus eof one of my family obligations popping up while we draft because your constantly changing plans alter MINE?! Maybe, with enough time, and assurance tha the plans won't change, I'll get my kids to spend the night at a grandparents house. Maybe I can do this, or that, or whatever. Maybe my plans take a lil longer to enact than yours, because all of my family members are nurses, and they all work weekends, and swing shifts, and various other things.
IMO, a man, and a parent, and a family man, makes an agreement to be somewhere at a certain date and time, and if another opportunity arises, they say, "Sorry, I'd love to, but I've made other plans for that day and time ALREADY."
As far as sending an email to you to discuss this, maybe that is the proper protocol, but I belive in not hiding behind private emails and saying what I have to say face to face, or as close to that as I can get.
I can't get misquoted. I have to stand in front of what I say. I think that is a good thing, and something lost in the impersonal contact of the internet. I would say the same thing to you face to face in a local league, and I would say it out loud and not just off to the side.
You girls can call it a hissy fit, or whatever you want to call it, but maybe other people feel the same way, maybe not. I know this, Merlin and fig are west coast people, 8am for them, is not 8am for you. Elvis, Bud and I drink a lot and for no apparent reason, so I might be half drunk and hungover as poopy that morning and really not want to get up. I'm sure all of you others are fine upstanding world citizens and don't have these potential issues, but I just f'n might.
It's not that I'm trying to be a dick, I'm just asking for ONE person to give the same considerations to me that he asks FROM me. And I'm doing it publically. I don't think that is unjust.
As always, I will make myself available whenever everyone else can be there, regardless.
FTR, my birthday is friday the 28th, my wife works the saturday and sunday after that friday and the next weekend I have two kids birthday parties to plan and carry out. I will need plenty of help from all of my family as I am either going to, coming from, or working 13 hrs a day.
So, can we nail down a time and a date, so I can make MY plans?