DemonKnight Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Just send her this and be done with it. Thanks for that link. My girl has admin access to our home laptop and set my account to block pron cause she dosent like me using "her" computer for lookin at pron. I just sent her this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thews40 Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Since I'm such an irascible jackass, all of my relationships end up going down the tubes at some point. I'm nearing that point again. Question for the forum, is it better to be the dumpee or dumper? NB: This is solely from the perspective of future relationships. I'm not 16 where a great deal of my self esteem will be lost by being dumped. Been there, done that, and there will be other relationships. Pros for being the dumpee - you're seen as the victim, women are afraid to be dumped so they prefer a dumpee Pros for being the dumper - you're in control, future GFs won't think you were a Veronicawhipped loser What say ye? This one is easy… it doesn’t matter. When a relationship is over it makes no difference who ends it. The way it ends makes all the difference. If you want to end it, just tell the truth and be done with it. If you think it’s going to end and this a pre-emptive strike, then ask for the truth and let it end based on the truth, or, save it based on her response. If you want out, get out now. Whatever happens, one last jab doesn’t do anything but change your options later. Just package it all up, confront the truth, and walk away wishing her all the best. If you decide it’s over, there’s really no point in talking about it once that decision is reached, unless you’re dumping her, because you owe her that. If she breaks up with you when you have the “We need to talk” moment, maintain ending the conversation as quickly as possible and walk away. What goes around comes around, and sometimes things change when a year or two passes. Sometimes they don’t change, but that’s another story. Just drop off the key Lee, and get yourself free. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TDFFFreak Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 (edited) Dumper is way easier. All you have to deal with is the guilt of making someone you usually care about feel bad, but otherwise you hold all the power and can move on with life. The dumpee has little power, feels helpless, and often their self worth (rightfully so or not) takes a huge hit for a period of time. I've been on both sides and it's not even close: I'll be the dumper any day of the week over being the dumpee. Edited June 28, 2007 by TDFFFreak Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egret Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Thanks for that link. My girl has admin access to our home laptop and set my account to block pron cause she dosent like me using "her" computer for lookin at pron. I just sent her this. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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