Scooby Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 any other ideas are greatly appreciated...without going into too much detail, I will see a person tmrw that I care about, who has hurt me deeply. I have already forgiven as God commands, but I really need some time to heal. I may hear an apology, a heart-felt or half-hearted one, or I may be given the cold-shoulder, in which I will continue to be cordial as I have done in the past. I am a a nerd, I have a journal, and have built a flow-chart for all scenarios I can think of. Many of my responses in my flow chart are the same, none will be rude. I have much anxiety about this, but am going in with a gameplan like I said, the best way I can think of to help myself not get caught up in anger or resentment, the last thing I want to feel. And a quick prayer of comfort and peace before I leave for the day. This is helping me reduce the anxiety....Thnx for reading this, any help or shared stories much appreciated Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bpwallace49 Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 any other ideas are greatly appreciated...without going into too much detail, I will see a person tmrw that I care about, who has hurt me deeply. I have already forgiven as God commands, but I really need some time to heal. I may hear an apology, a heart-felt or half-hearted one, or I may be given the cold-shoulder, in which I will continue to be cordial as I have done in the past. I am a a nerd, I have a journal, and have built a flow-chart for all scenarios I can think of. Many of my responses in my flow chart are the same, none will be rude. I have much anxiety about this, but am going in with a gameplan like I said, the best way I can think of to help myself not get caught up in anger or resentment, the last thing I want to feel. And a quick prayer of comfort and peace before I leave for the day. This is helping me reduce the anxiety....Thnx for reading this, any help or shared stories much appreciated Prayers sent scooby! I am sure everything will be fine. and if your hubby hurts you again let us know . . . whomper knows some paisans he can send by . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted August 4, 2011 Author Share Posted August 4, 2011 lol!! no hubby hurt...thnx for help, well. Opie it is someone family-related, so I got to put myself in the right mind Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buddahj Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Best of luck Scooby. I hope everything works out for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocknrobn26 Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 God speed sweetheart! Do what you need to do, but be strong and don't take any crap. You are a classy lady and I'm sure your resolution will match. Take care and stay cool! rr26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clubfoothead Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 it is someone family-related I soooo envy the robot. Good luck tomorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muck Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Say what you need to say then shut up and listen. If they are not respectful, you need to make sure you give yourself the freedom to leave with the issue unresolved. Good luck to you. You have nothing to lose if you speak the truth with love, and remain humble while doing so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditkaless Wonders Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 If you plan what to do will it throw you off if the anticipated scenarios do not come to pass, or do not come to pass as anticipated? Might canned responses end up being ianpropriate? Regardless, I hope the matter goes well for you and brings you somepeace, comfort, or closure, depending upon your need at the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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