twiley Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 How about any of you? Do you know any guys that remove the ring with intent and would you ever tell what you know? 1256698[/snapback] I would never tell AND your husband broke a pretty big rule. Don't get me wrong, I'm not in favor of cheating but it's no ones business but the person doing the cheating and it's better to keep your mouth closed than get involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetlips Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 I would never tell AND your husband broke a pretty big rule. Don't get me wrong, I'm not in favor of cheating but it's no ones business but the person doing the cheating and it's better to keep your mouth closed than get involved. 1256743[/snapback] And I know that he breaks the big rule.....I respect that and he trusts that I will keep it all to myself. And I do. I feel that knowing what really goes on when he takes his reps that are in town to the strip joints etc.....only adds to my trust in him and his in me. And I agree its no ones business but the person doing the cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonorator Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 That said, my hubby also has friends that remove the ring while out partying with the intention of cheating. We have this understanding, he tells me who the cheater friends are and the stories behind them as long as I dont let on that I know. I know it violates some guy code but we tell each other everything. The only problem this causes is when I will at times socialize with the wives. 1256698[/snapback] note to self - no partying with mr. sweetlips ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetlips Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 note to self - no partying with mr. sweetlips ... 1256834[/snapback] Your secrets would be safe with me. I have a proven trust track record. Are you saying all guys honor the code and dont talk, even to other guys? Gender shouldnt tell you who to trust or not trust. I also know guys that gossip. In fact, it was a buddy of a party guy that decided to try and get a laugh and spilled the beans because he thought it was a funny story and needed to be told to everyone. Not cool. Turned out to not be so funny. He's the one that no one will party with now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pork chop express Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 i'm not married. just a fyi, my dad never wore his ring. he was married for 37 years and i never saw it on him. he was buried with it, though. my mom never wore a ring either. it just wasn't a big deal to my folks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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