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I am sure it is hidden.  So is Eblaster which I just looked up...it is more expensive than DMD's  but gives you real time email logs of all chats/emails sent and received link

 

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Thanks.

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I definitely do not want to invade my kids privacy unless I'm suspicious or something. I'm guessing there's a way to click how much info you want to know. I want her to know that I trust her and like someone else said, don't want to know all of her discussions with her friends.

 

Can you imagine:

 

"My idiot dad thinks I believe in Santa"

 

"He bought me this dumb telescope when a gift certificate to Limited Too would have been so much better"

 

I don't think I can handle that type of stuff :D

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I definitely do not want to invade my kids privacy unless I'm suspicious or something.  I'm guessing there's a way to click how much info you want to know.  I want her to know that I trust her and like someone else said, don't want to know all of her discussions with her friends.

 

Can you imagine:

 

"My idiot dad thinks I believe in Santa"

 

"He bought me this dumb telescope when a gift certificate to Limited Too would have been so much better"

 

I don't think I can handle that type of stuff :D

 

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Ignorance isn't always bliss.

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I definitely do not want to invade my kids privacy unless I'm suspicious or something.  I'm guessing there's a way to click how much info you want to know.  I want her to know that I trust her and like someone else said, don't want to know all of her discussions with her friends.

 

Can you imagine:

 

"My idiot dad thinks I believe in Santa"

 

"He bought me this dumb telescope when a gift certificate to Limited Too would have been so much better"

 

I don't think I can handle that type of stuff :D

 

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That's what I was trying to say earlier. :D

 

Lots of Bush voters in this thread :D.

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I definitely do not want to invade my kids privacy unless I'm suspicious or something.  I'm guessing there's a way to click how much info you want to know.  I want her to know that I trust her and like someone else said, don't want to know all of her discussions with her friends.

 

Can you imagine:

 

"My idiot dad thinks I believe in Santa"

 

"He bought me this dumb telescope when a gift certificate to Limited Too would have been so much better"

 

I don't think I can handle that type of stuff :D

 

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"my pathetic dad can't even change a tire"

 

:D

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"my pathetic dad can't even change a tire"

 

:D

 

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DMD, do they know it's there?  My kids are teens and computer savy, can i install it and hied it from them?

 

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It merely adds one more icon to the system tray on the bottom right of your screen (assuming you are using windows). That icon is password protected if clicked on. They would never know it is there unless they starting clicking on icons in the system tray which my son never has.

 

Here is a sample of the logfile I get everyday (That PC is my old one and is called DMD):

 

01/22/06 03:52:13 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (3) MRcool224: wad up?

01/22/06 03:52:15 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (5) mr ZACH PANTS: HI

01/22/06 03:52:19 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) MRcool224: wad up?

01/22/06 03:52:31 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (3) FeWOwNs: nm

01/22/06 03:52:37 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (5) MRcool224: wad upo

01/22/06 03:52:40 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) GDN191: n2m

01/22/06 03:52:42 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) GDN191: how are  u

01/22/06 03:52:45 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (3) MRcool224: coo

01/22/06 03:52:49 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (5) mr ZACH PANTS: boutto go to a show

01/22/06 03:53:16 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) MRcool224: oh bored from not being able to go outside and im doing homework so im REALLY BORED!!!

01/22/06 03:53:30 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (5) MRcool224: ?wich?

01/22/06 03:53:37 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.google.com/

01/22/06 03:53:42 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=skuuls

01/22/06 03:53:42 PM DMD FILTERED       .     

01/22/06 03:53:45 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=skulls

01/22/06 03:53:45 PM DMD FILTERED       .     

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=cartoon+skulls

01/22/06 03:53:59 PM DMD FILTERED       .     

01/22/06 03:53:59 PM DMD FILTERED          .  

01/22/06 03:53:59 PM DMD FILTERED      .  

01/22/06 03:54:00 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.google.com/url?sa=T&ct=res&cd=1...6BZrGoALw3t3wCw

01/22/06 03:54:00 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.vectorart.com/store/index.cfm/C...n_Skulls_61.htm

01/22/06 03:54:01 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.vectorart.com/_scripts/styles.css

01/22/06 03:54:01 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.vectorart.com/_scripts/styleprint.css

01/22/06 03:54:01 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.vectorart.com/__utmses.js

01/22/06 03:54:02 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.vectorart.com/_scripts/javascript.js

01/22/06 03:54:02 PM DMD ACCESSED http://www.vectorart.com/_scripts/thumbnailzoom.js

01/22/06 03:58:24 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) MRcool224: ya but i gota rite a formal lab raport

01/22/06 03:58:30 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) MRcool224: about parachutes....snore

01/22/06 03:58:50 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) GDN191: that sucks

01/22/06 03:59:35 PM DMD ACCESSED http://192.168.1.1:5431/uuid:0013-101e-302...NIPConnection:1

01/22/06 04:01:53 PM DMD COMMENT AIM: (4) MRcool224: ya

 

 

It shows not only the IM messages - when and to what IM names, it also shows the search terms used on search engines (he searched on skuuls and then spelled it correctly as skulls). It shows he then went to a page that had skull graphics on it.

 

He knows I have something on it because I have it set to not allow him to view pages with pornography, hate sites and some others. If you set it to allow access to anything, then they would never know it was there. As it is, if he tries to go to a blcoked page, he just gets a white screen. He strongly suspects the internet is not down for just him on particular web sites but is not sure.

 

I dislike invading privacy but my obligations as a parent supercede that in my opinion. I may scale back on what I prevent or even viewing IM messages in the future, but a 12 year old kid is just not ready for that sort of freedom in the world today far as I am concerned.

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It merely adds one more icon to the system tray on the bottom right of your screen (assuming you are using windows). That icon is password protected if clicked on. They would never know it is there unless they starting clicking on icons in the system tray which my son never has.

 

Here is a sample of the logfile I get everyday (That PC is my old one and is called DMD):

It shows not only the IM messages - when and to what IM names, it also shows the search terms used on search engines (he searched on skuuls and then spelled it correctly as skulls). It shows he then went to a page that had skull graphics on it.

 

He knows I have something on it because I have it set to not allow him to view pages with pornography, hate sites and some others. If you set it to allow access to anything, then they would never know it was there. As it is, if he tries to go to a blcoked page, he just gets a white screen. He strongly suspects the internet is not down for just him on particular web sites but is not sure.

 

I dislike invading privacy but my obligations as a parent supercede that in my opinion. I may scale back on what I prevent or even viewing IM messages in the future, but a 12 year old kid is just not ready for that sort of freedom in the world today far as I am concerned.

 

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Thanks all!

and DMD, that pretty much looks like the lingo that my

daughter uses on IM too, most of it I can't even understand.

 

and we agree on this

 

"I dislike invading privacy but my obligations as a parent supercede that in my opinion. I may scale back on what I prevent or even viewing IM messages in the future, but a 12 year old kid is just not ready for that sort of freedom in the world today far as I am concerned."

 

Those are my feelings as well.

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Another thing - MySpace is probably the most popular site for teenagers and from my experience (albeit limited), is not a good place for your 14-15 year old to be spending their time.

 

I mean Darin is on there for crying out loud :D

 

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:D I would bet the house that there are more Huddlers with Myspace pages. :D Heck, I use my Photobucket account for most photo-sharing.

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:D  I would bet the house that there are more Huddlers with Myspace pages.  :D  Heck, I use my Photobucket account for most photo-sharing.

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You'd be wrong I bet.

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How much would you like to bet that there is at least one Huddler with a Myspace page other than the resident teenagers?  :D

 

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One out of about 11,000?!? Going out on a pretty thick limb there, huh, D? :D

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:D  I would bet the house that there are more Huddlers with Myspace pages.  :D  Heck, I use my Photobucket account for most photo-sharing.

 

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You'd be wrong I bet.

 

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One out of about 11,000?!? Going out on a pretty thick limb there, huh, D? :D

 

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:D

 

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That is small # out of all of the Huddlers is my point, It's mostly a kiddie thing.

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