theeohiostate Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 I'm going to try that excuse next time the wife catches the cable bill before i do...............my boys are 15 and 16 , so i can use them for cover also. Good work man ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Holy Roller Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 My advice is to pat him on the back Mama don't let your babies grow up to be homos, Don't let'em wear earrings and carry a purse, Let'em drink whiskey, chase wimen, and curse... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justin Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Ya, look at it this way. You just spent $120 to confirm his heterosexuality. He didn't say of it was ghey porn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Country Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 He didn't say of it was ghey porn cre8tiff's son is irish? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WaterMan Posted September 14, 2007 Share Posted September 14, 2007 My advice is to pat him on the back At least he isn't gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yo mama Posted September 14, 2007 Share Posted September 14, 2007 (edited) Meh. The pron wouldn't bother me. But him expecting *me* to pay for it would. Two totally separate issues. The way I see it, this situation is really not *that* big of a deal, but provides you with an opportunity to talk to your son about a number of important issues. I mean, it ain't like you caught him smokin' another dudes sausage for drug money. Over react here and you risk alienating your son and discouraging him from coming to you in the future when he has questions about any number of life's problems. That's not to say punishment/repercussions aren't in order. Just be fair, level-headed, articulate what it is that you are (and aren't) upset about, that you love him, and let him know that *you* know that growing up isn't easy and that you don't expect perfection from him. And I say play it cool: do what you can not to publicly humiliate him over this in front of his mother/siblings/family/etc. This is a prototypical father-son issue that ought to be worked out between the two of you. Edited September 15, 2007 by yo mama Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H8tank Posted September 15, 2007 Share Posted September 15, 2007 I found a OUI next to the road when I was about 7, told my grandma, she told me to hide it at her house and never tell my mom, bless her soul. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thunder Chicken Posted September 15, 2007 Share Posted September 15, 2007 I found a OUI next to the road when I was about 7, told my grandma, she told me to hide it at her house and never tell my mom, bless her soul. Cool Grandma!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cre8tiff Posted September 15, 2007 Author Share Posted September 15, 2007 Meh. The pron wouldn't bother me. But him expecting *me* to pay for it would. Two totally separate issues. The way I see it, this situation is really not *that* big of a deal, but provides you with an opportunity to talk to your son about a number of important issues. I mean, it ain't like you caught him smokin' another dudes sausage for drug money. Over react here and you risk alienating your son and discouraging him from coming to you in the future when he has questions about any number of life's problems. That's not to say punishment/repercussions aren't in order. Just be fair, level-headed, articulate what it is that you are (and aren't) upset about, that you love him, and let him know that *you* know that growing up isn't easy and that you don't expect perfection from him. And I say play it cool: do what you can not to publicly humiliate him over this in front of his mother/siblings/family/etc. This is a prototypical father-son issue that ought to be worked out between the two of you. Good advice here. I need to react differently, due to my son's background, but anyone who has not adopted an abused child should definately follow this advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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