Puddy Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Or pay the to kill her and burn her parts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azazello1313 Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 all you can really do is try and convince him that it makes a lot more sense to do the whole counseling thing BEFORE they commit themselves to being married. convince him they're putting the cart before the horse, putting pressure on the relationship such that it WON'T work. the main thing is, you have to totally respect the fact that he WANTS to be with her. anything you say to convince him otherwise right now will go in one ear and out the other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twiley Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Or pay the to kill her and burn her parts. I hear ninjas will do it for $600. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 (edited) The funny thing is that after they broke up and we found out she cheated on him, became a lesbian, etc., he got all of us to hate her...he threw away her things in the dumpster...now he wants everyone to give her another chance... This sounds like a bad situation for your brother and based on what you have said there seems to be no way to change his mind. The sad part is that based on his history with this girl he knows what he is getting in to and still is willing to move forward. Will she change, probably not. Does your brother think she will or has changed, probably. In this case it seems that you have to allow your brother to make this potential mistake. You can tell him how you feel about it and if he changes his mind great. If he doesn't change his mind tell him that no matter what you will be there for him. Edit to add: And if he does still decide to get married to this girl if nothing else try to convince him to tell your mom. Even if she doesn't agree with the marriage it would probably hurt her much more if he gets married behind her back and doesn't tell her, Edited March 13, 2007 by max Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cameltosis Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 If you dont end up having this talk with him, make sure you have the "no butch dikes in the 3way talk." This can really mess up a good thing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitem0nkey Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 First best of luck i hope this will work out for the best some how. maybe try to convince him to be engaged for a year before they do this. and they they should live together for that year. if they will be married for there whole life what is 1 year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty Sanchez Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Not sure where your bro lives, but if you are in an area that Tom Leykis is on the radio make him listen to his show or even call into the show. That'll straighten him out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty Sanchez Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Obviously your bro wasn't man enough for her. She had to get satisfaction from a butch lesbo. What does he think won't make her do it again? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skins Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Its somethin that you need to have cause when she leaves yer asz, shes gonna leave with half eighteen years, eighteen years, and on its eighteenth birthday he found out it wasnt his holla we want prenup we want prenup yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChuckB Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 I need some help with my brother too but I can't come here for advice. I had to look at the name and Avy on this post cause for a second I thought it I posted it and forgot about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pope Flick Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 29 and 17 when they met, now 35 and 23. I'm near his age, and would have a hard time trusting that a 23 year old wouldn't go through a 'phase' as they are wont to do, much less trust one who has a phase under her belt and will probably relapse around the age of 26. Now, that's simply pure conjecture, but this age gap is going to mean different perspectives on life, and if she feels they aren't connecting expect a relapse. This depends on their maturity and neither sound strong in that area. Bad idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexgaddis Posted March 14, 2007 Author Share Posted March 14, 2007 ok, so I just emailed him this... "When do you start seeing the counselor…do you think it would make sense to see what the counselor says about making the marriage official?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hat Trick Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 ok, so I just emailed him this... "When do you start seeing the counselor…do you think it would make sense to see what the counselor says about making the marriage official?" You know what the response is going to be, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexgaddis Posted March 14, 2007 Author Share Posted March 14, 2007 You know what the response is going to be, right? no, but I can guess... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonehand Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 Dang AG, good luck man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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