Guest Sores Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Question: A female co-worker sends you an innocuous, congratulatory email. Rather than put her name at the end, she "signs" it XOXOX You find her attractive, but both are in relationships already....what do you take the "signature" to mean? Is it flirtatous? Inappropriate? Sexual Harrassment?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimC Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Our legal receptionist signs everything with "Luv". I feel so sexually abused. But I enjoy it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonorator Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 but both are in relationships already....1315995[/snapback] marriages? also, have you seen other e-mails from her? is this a standard sig of hers? definitely is flirtatous. whether it is inappropriate or harrassment is really up to you, depending on how you take it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffeeman Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Its practically an invitation to grope! OR at least to make copies of your buttcheeks on the copier... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darin3 Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Cannot make a full assessment without pics. !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimC Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Ask her if she wanted to play tic-tac-toe or not and see where it leads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sores Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 marriages? 1316003[/snapback] Yup...both married. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zooty Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Could be innocent. We have a girl who talks like a waitress and calls everbody "hun". Not sure if any one gave her a tip yet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piranha Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Could be innocent. We have a girl who talks like a waitress and calls everbody "hun". 1316020[/snapback] I had a supervisor like that once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh B Tool Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 (edited) ambiguous at best, depending on the company and person. when I worked for the mothership(AT&T) this little filly used to tell guys they smelled good and how she absolutely goes apesh!t over certain colognes. Co-worker she wasn't friendly with innocently told her she smelled nice while a few of us were on the elevator. Long story short, dude gets called to the carpet a week later for remarks he made toward a female co-worker. Best to ignore it completely unless she actually comes on to you, then pork her on your desk and all will be good Edited February 9, 2006 by Hugh B Tool Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azazello1313 Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 the only way to know for sure what she means is to see what happens when you grab her ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmarc117 Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 this might help..... http://www.filecabi.net/u.php?file=1139511498.wmv Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sores Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 this might help..... http://www.filecabi.net/u.php?file=1139511498.wmv 1316090[/snapback] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perchoutofwater Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Yup...both married. 1316018[/snapback] Dude stay away from it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piranha Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 the only way to know for sure what she means is to see what happens when you grab her ass 1316059[/snapback] Good advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yukon Cornelius Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 bj's are not considerd sex so that should be ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocknrobn26 Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Dude stay away from it. 1316108[/snapback] +1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piranha Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Well if your thinking about it, you've already gone too far Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sores Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 +1 1316149[/snapback] Just for clarification purposes: I am NOT one of the parties. I was asked my opinion by the woman. She asked me if it was "OK" or if I thought it was inappropriate. I immediately responded that I thought it was inappropriate. Thinking about it now, just the fact that she had to ask me means she KNEW it was inappropriate. The other woman I asked told me she didn't know if inappropriate was the right word, but definitely flirtatous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azazello1313 Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Just for clarification purposes: I am NOT one of the parties. I was asked my opinion by the woman. She asked me if it was "OK" or if I thought it was inappropriate. I immediately responded that I thought it was inappropriate. Thinking about it now, just the fact that she had to ask me means she KNEW it was inappropriate. The other woman I asked told me she didn't know if inappropriate was the right word, but definitely flirtatous. 1316161[/snapback] wait. is this some sort of lesbian thing? sweet! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hankk Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 I am an expert on these matters. The XOXOXO, in and of itself, doesn't mean sh*t. It might be flirtatious. It might be completely innocent. It is not necessarily inappropriate. That's just the way some broads are. You need to know the woman, and some particulars of her relationship with the dude, before you can draw any real conclusions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Cliche Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Question: A female co-worker sends you an innocuous, congratulatory email. Rather than put her name at the end, she "signs" it XOXOX You find her attractive, but both are in relationships already....what do you take the "signature" to mean? Is it flirtatous? Inappropriate? Sexual Harrassment?? 1315995[/snapback] Yup...both married. 1316018[/snapback] I wouldnt touch that with a 10 foot pole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimC Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 I am NOT one of the parties.1316161[/snapback] Thank goodness. I would never have sex with a woman that wants my obsession. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cliaz Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Funny thing is I am our department’s ethics trainer. I have to cover sexual harassment, proper business ethics and all that crap with new hires. Yeah, isn’t that funny. Tell your friend that a interoffice email sound never have any other closing signature line than: Regards, Sincerely or Simply just your name. Using that XXOOXXOOXOXO crap can get a lot of people in trouble. Because now your system administrators backup protocol that use for email has a record of it. PS: Does she have big t1tties? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage Beatings Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 Funny thing is I am our department’s ethics trainer. I have to cover sexual harassment, proper business ethics and all that crap with new hires. Yeah, isn’t that funny. 1316332[/snapback] Fan-flippin-tastic! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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