cliaz Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Mary: I beg your pardon? Lloyd: That's what we're gonna call it. I got worms! We're gonna specialize in selling worm farms. You know, like ant farms. So like the wife and all the other hood rat hoes that live on my street went out for ladies night out on Friday. I feel that my wife is always stuck in the house with the kids so she should go out. In fact she should be going out at least once a week but it's so hard for her to do it. So the ladies promised me they would get her hammered and all that crap. Well anyways I found out that I am the only husband that doesn't give his wife a hard time when she wants to go out and party. Even the most laid back kind of guy on our street gives his wife the cold shoulder the day she is going to go out. I don't understand that. Dudes - do you hate it or does it bother you when your wife goes out dancing with the girls? Does it bother you that she could be dancing with a guy or getting hammered at the bar? Dunno, I just don't get that way anymore. The rest of the wives on the street are jealous of my hiz-oe because of that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T_bone65 Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Go Out????? My wife isn't allowed out of the house without me there unless she is going to work or to go and get me more beer. It doesn't bother me in the lest if/when she goes out. I wish she would go out more often but she won't not does she want to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursa Majoris Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 If you're confident in your relationship with your wife, why wouldn't you be happy to see her go out and have fun? I think you've got it dead right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexgaddis Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I only wish my wife went out more with the girls... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Cid Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I too wish my wife would go out with the girls more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikesVikes Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 My Mom said I'd get worms if I didn't stop eating the cookie dough. So far so good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursa Majoris Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I too wish my wife would go out with the girls more. So that: a. she can get out of the house and have fun with her friends. and / or b. you can sit and watch porn on the big TV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Cid Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 So that: a. she can get out of the house and have fun with her friends. and / or b. you can sit and watch porn on the big TV. I watch pron with the wife. The answer is A. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wcd480 Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Don't have a wife, but I think it is good for each SO in a relationship to maintain their individuality and spend time with their own friends regualarly. If that means they go out dancing and drinking, its no biggie. They will just go on the dance floor and form a little circle with their purses and shoes in the middle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billay Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 My wife goes out with her buds quite often. It's good for her. Besides, for the time being, she's the man of the house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billay Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Great sig! The radar sir, it appears to be.........JAMMED! RASPBERRY! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtomicCEO Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Like most husbands, I wish my wife would go out with her friends more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiefjay Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I think it partially depends on how many kids she / you have, how old they are, is there drinking and driving going on and by whom, and how often it happens. I don't mind my wife going out with her friends but it needs to make sense and not be careless. I don't want it to be weekly because quite frankly a night out drinking, getting home late (around 2am) means the next day will be highly unproductive. Maybe once or twice a month. I think there are other options that don't involve as much alcohol. Dinner with friends with drinks, lunch with friends with a few drinks, getting together with friends during the day to let the kids have fun and for them to have adullt conversation time, etc... A difficult item about my wife and her friends which includes her work friends, her old work friends, and her old buds from high school is that almost all of them at some point over the past 7 years were single with no children, single with older children, or married with no children, etc... and them always chiding (sp?) my wife that she doesn't go out with them as much as they would like. One of her good work friends now is younger, just married and no kids and she is the worst although she is a very nice person. One other note is that my wife was a hugh partier from around age 16 until we had the first child which was a span of about 12 years so it's not like she didn't get to sew those wild oats. I do practice what I preach and very rarely drink these days, maybe on a Saturday / Sunday afternoon with the family at a BBQ in the summer, watching a Piston / Wing game or a big MNF or other College Night game or on vacation or while attending a sporting event because of Puddy's bad influence on me. I know I'll get lambasted but I'll brace myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
untateve Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I don't care if my goes out, although she rarely goes out with "the girls." One of her best friends is a male teacher. Usually, once or twice a week, she walks the bridge (good size bridge, a lot of people walk it for the exercise) with him. I've had people tell me I'm nuts for "allowing" this to happen. My view--if my wife is determined to cheat on me, there's nothing short of killing her that's going to prevent it. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity and a huge waste of energy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmarc117 Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I don't care if my goes out, although she rarely goes out with "the girls." One of her best friends is a male teacher. Usually, once or twice a week, she walks the bridge (good size bridge, a lot of people walk it for the exercise) with him. I've had people tell me I'm nuts for "allowing" this to happen. My view--if my wife is determined to cheat on me, there's nothing short of killing her that's going to prevent it. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity and a huge waste of energy. exactly, jealousy is bad....pushes her away and makes you a nutcase worrying about things you cant control Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 My wife and I dont give each other a hard time at all in this department. We even are cool with a few long weekends with our friends a year. I trust my wife completely and she trusts me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sgt. Ryan Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Ive encouraged my wife to go out with her friends even if it is just to dinner without me, to give her some time away from the kids after work sometime. She says she feels guilty to leave me with the kids, which I dont understand cause on Saturday and Sunday they leave with me most of both days, as they are sick of being in the house all day. At night its even easier, cause I can put there lil ass's to bed around 9, and have some free time myself without the wife and kids, to get caught up on my research. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtomicCEO Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Jealousy is a sign of insecurity and a huge waste of energy. Unless you date one of those women who thinks that jealously is a sign that you care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
untateve Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Unless you date one of those women who thinks that jealously is a sign that you care. That's a whole separate nightmare from which any healthy individual should run. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiefjay Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Unless you date one of those women who thinks that jealously is a sign that you care. It's a fine line my friend and can change at any moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NSab Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 My wife can go out with her friends anytime she likes, she doesn't very often. She also lets me do my thing all of Football season. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yo mama Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 If I didn't let the wife to go do her thing once in a while there's maybe a 50/50 chance she'd go all Andrea Yates on me. So, yeah, I like that she gets to go out and do stuff a couple times a month. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yukon Cornelius Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Unless you date one of those women who thinks that jealously is a sign that you care. eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek i dated a gal like that once.... WOW kooko is to mild a wurd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yukon Cornelius Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 My wife and I dont give each other a hard time at all in this department. We even are cool with a few long weekends with our friends a year. I trust my wife completely and she trusts me. me three Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spain Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 My wife and I dont give each other a hard time at all in this department. We even are cool with a few long weekends with our friends a year. I trust my wife completely and she trusts me. +1 Heck, my wife got a call from a couple of girlfriends who wanted to go out to California to visit another friend a few weeks ago. We only had 24 hours notice, but I was cool with her going out there to hang with her friends for 4 days while I kept the kids. She doesnt care when I go places or go out either. I will be coming to WCOFF in September, alone.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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