nuke'em ttg Posted November 30, 2008 Share Posted November 30, 2008 mine doesn't seems like whenever there's a confilict or decision that involves a 3rd party. my wife will be apt to take the other persons side or want to give them 2 more strikes....I perfer the nip it in the bud approach but my wife never steps up to support that for say 21 years but when she's pissed at me the Guns are a Blazin WAIT this could be the definition of Marriage anyway I worship the ground she walks on and would kill in an instant for her, but she never jumps to the front lines....just kinda pisses me off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FWmaker Posted November 30, 2008 Share Posted November 30, 2008 Alas, Nuke, mine certainly does not have my back. But she's the first to say when I don't have hers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuke'em ttg Posted November 30, 2008 Author Share Posted November 30, 2008 Alas, Nuke, mine certainly does not have my back. But she's the first to say when I don't have hers! ok FW....now would you put 30 days as an average before sex happin again with Her or is that being optimistic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtomicCEO Posted November 30, 2008 Share Posted November 30, 2008 Do what I do and don't allow your wife to speak in public. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuke'em ttg Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Damn, you're really out there. I don't even let mine leave the kitchen. buns in bed / biscuits in the oven that would be another good name for an over 55 league.....went down hill when women could vote and work outside the house but shaved pelts is a nice twist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rajncajn Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Is your wife a Libra? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perchoutofwater Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 About the only time my wife doesn't have my back is when me and her twin sister have a disagreement, and then it doesn't matter if her sister is arguing that the sky is green, my wife is going to agree with her. As you can imagine this really pisses me off. Occassionally she will back the kids when I'm handing out punishments, and I'm O.K. with this most of the time. In pretty much every other circumstance she has my back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hat Trick Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Alas, Nuke, mine certainly does not have my back. But she's the first to say when I don't have hers! +1 Is your wife a Libra? Yep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
detlef Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 I realized a very annoying trend of my wife seeming to trust other opinions over mine and then just started calling her on it. I think it comes down to being afraid that I'd dominate the decision making process at home, despite the fact that I actually don't really want to always be the last word at home since I run a business and have to be that way at work. It gets freaking old after a while and sometimes it's nice just to fall in line. Of course, I have a hard time doing so if the person doesn't seem to have a valid reason for why they want to do something (not to be confused with an idea that I don't agree with). None the less, perhaps she felt that by willingly adopting someone ideas besides mine, they'd be hers and she'd have a say. We just had a lot of arguments about it, me trying to tell her that I'm completely cool with her trying to do things her way, just so long as they're actually her way, not simply the first opinion she finds that opposes mine. Of course, part of that is a woman's desire to always talk things out, even if the solution is easy and at hand. We want to move on once the problem is solved, they want to continue the effort, even if that means throwing any old argument your way. That pisses us off, especially if we've put some thought into our solution. It's as if we need to support our conclusion against half-baked notions that she's pulling out of nowhere. "My friend Jane says we should do it this way." "Well, that's f'ing great. Do you think we should do it that way? Or are you seriously implying that your friend Jane should have as much say as I do about what goes on in our house." For some time now, we've reached a peace in this regard. We each defer to whomever really seems to feel the strongest about something and she's started saving her battles for things she actually has an opinion on. From my end, I try to resist trying to put the issue to bed as quickly as possible and, I suppose pretend to come to a conclusion more slowly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keggerz Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 mine doesn't seems like whenever there's a confilict or decision that involves a 3rd party. my wife will be apt to take the other persons side or want to give them 2 more strikes....I perfer the nip it in the bud approach but my wife never steps up to support that for say 21 years but when she's pissed at me the Guns are a Blazin WAIT this could be the definition of Marriage anyway I worship the ground she walks on and would kill in an instant for her, but she never jumps to the front lines....just kinda pisses me off my wife said she was gonna kick your a$$ after the cake & butter comment in HFA...does that count as having my back oh and she was kidding...she said its not nice to beat up retards gotcha again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muck Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 I cannot imagine going through life wondering if my wife had my back. My wife + my kids + my parents = six HUGE supporters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 along the lines of what Perch said my wife has my back most of the times but sides with the kids a lot if I am having a disagreement with them which makes things difficult for me. I call her their lawyer. As far as adult situations she has my back. She is very laid back. she will tell me if she thinks I am wrong but always in private and wouldnt show my hand to someone I am disagreeing with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
detlef Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 along the lines of what Perch said my wife has my back most of the times but sides with the kids a lot if I am having a disagreement with them which makes things difficult for me. I call her their lawyer. As far as adult situations she has my back. She is very laid back. she will tell me if she thinks I am wrong but always in private and wouldnt show my hand to someone I am disagreeing with. I should add that, even including the issues I mentioned above, she's never gotten in my dish in front of other people unless it was something trivial and fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twiley Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 My wife pretty much always takes my side and when she doesn't she'll just keep quiet until it's just the two of us. I do the same. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azazello1313 Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 my wife doesn't always agree with me, but I would say her instinct is to trust my opinion above anyone else's. that's nice because, 1) I know she DOES have my back, and 2) when she thinks I am wrong I can use that as a pretty good indication that I actually am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
driveby Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 when she thinks I am wrong I can use that as a pretty good indication that I actually am. I hate when that happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy Neutron Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 my wife doesn't always agree with me, but I would say her instinct is to trust my opinion above anyone else's. that's nice because, 1) I know she DOES have my back, and 2) when she thinks I am wrong I can use that as a pretty good indication that I actually am. +1 - either that or there's a really good argument coming... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muck Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 my wife doesn't always agree with me, but I would say her instinct is to trust my opinion above anyone else's. that's nice because, 1) I know she DOES have my back, and 2) when she thinks I am wrong I can use that as a pretty good indication that I actually am. This is what I meant to say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chief Dick Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 I actually don't really want to always be the last word at home This is the funniest thing you have ever posted here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuke'em ttg Posted December 2, 2008 Author Share Posted December 2, 2008 my wife said she was gonna kick your a$$ after the cake & butter comment in HFA...does that count as having my back oh and she was kidding...she said its not nice to beat up retards We need to have you guys over for dinner some night gotcha again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
detlef Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 This is the funniest thing you have ever posted here. Someone still bent that I made fun of his crunchy taco shells? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chief Dick Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Someone still bent that I made fun of his crunchy taco shells? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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