boat_hacked Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 maybe you and Jon (& Kate + 8) can hang out together?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TDFFFreak Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 For the record ... it was a pizza place with a bar area and some big-screen TVs all over the place (really no different than a place like Pizzaria Uno or Old Chicago) ... not really a "bar" bar (if you will) ... again, it seemed (and still seems) pretty innocent to me ... and, my logic regarding flashing my ring at her at the get-go was "I'm not moving anything; I do not want to encourage this by changing my body language" ... so, since I was sitting with my arms folded, elbows on the table (which resulted in my left hand being tucked under my right elbow), my ring was 'hidden'. I figured keeping my arms folded, leaning forward (as opposed to arms down, leaning back, shoulders turned towards her) was a pretty obvious "I'm not really into this" gesture. Maybe could have taken a different tack, but that is what I did and why I did it. But out of fairness and curiosity, you could have taken several steps to separate yourself from the situation once you learned that she was hitting on you and you didn't, correct? I think an obvious flash of the wedding ring may have been a far more effective maneuver than holding your stance. I am not condemning you at all. As I said in my earlier post, I think there's a natural curiosity and this ended up pretty harmless. I just wonder why you didn't remove yourself from the situation. Was the conversation that stimulating? Were you just so determined to enjoy your time at the pizza place? Or was there a part of you that kind of enjoyed the attention or situation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh 0ne Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 Or was there a part of you that kind of enjoyed the attention or situation? Not knowing Muck personally, methinks this is the winner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimC Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 If you do her in the butt, it's not really cheating, is it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swampnuts Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 If you do her in the butt, it's not really cheating, is it? Not at all. As long as you only do the things your wife refuses to do, it's all good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nogohawk Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 Interestingly, he had me at 'Crocs.' Sounds like a line from "Jerry Maguire" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cre8tiff Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 If you do her in the butt, it's not really cheating, is it? Wait a minute. You told me that was a fact that night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Cid Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 Not at all. As long as you only do the things your wife refuses to do, it's all good. I take it Mrs Swampnuts is no longer looking over your shoulder. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swampnuts Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 I take it Mrs Swampnuts is no longer looking over your shoulder. You wouldn't narc a brother out would you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Cid Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 You wouldn't narc a brother out would you? What happens in the Tailgate stays in the Tailgate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Country Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 You wouldn't narc a brother out would you? Depends on what Mrs. Swampnuts looks like.... j/k Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hat Trick Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 muck and everyone else, just remember this for next time...the best way for all involved to diffuse this type of situation in the future would be to take out your phone, start snapping pictures, and say "hold on, I need pictures of this so my imaginary internet friends will believe me." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuke'em ttg Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 have the crocs made it to the firepit yet ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wolf Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 So, Muck...maybe I missed it in an earlier post, but what did you decide to do? Tell the Missus or not? Just curious. I discussed your situation with my wife (keeping your handle silent in the event we work with you on our finances!) and she looked at me like I were crazy when I asked her if she'd want to know. Short answer: NO WAY. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh 0ne Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 So, Muck...maybe I missed it in an earlier post, but what did you decide to do? Tell the Missus or not? Just curious. I discussed your situation with my wife (keeping your handle silent in the event we work with you on our finances!) and she looked at me like I were crazy when I asked her if she'd want to know. Short answer: NO WAY. I just told her the version of something along the lines of "you won't believe what happened" ... She laughed. I told her I wanted her to know. She said, "Just in case it got back to me that my husband was seen with another woman." More laughter. ...all's good... Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
westvirginia Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 Not at all. As long as you only do the things your wife refuses to do, it's all good. Dammit! I can't get away with nuthin! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wolf Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 Thanks Hugh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 Not at all. As long as you only do the things your wife refuses to do, it's all good. This is true. The other day I picked up a hooker. When we got in the room she said "What do you want to do?" I said just stand there and dont nag me . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuke'em ttg Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 This is true. The other day I picked up a hooker. When we got in the room she said "What do you want to do?" I said just stand there and dont nag me . that's got to be one Incredible feeling.....was she able ta do it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 that's got to be one Incredible feeling.....was she able ta do it Its not in their genes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuke'em ttg Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 Its not in their genes crap.....i'll revoke it off my bucketlist it sounded so good too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bushwacked Posted June 26, 2009 Share Posted June 26, 2009 Any cheating I've done has been with my wife's full fledged participation. Muck, you need to get outside more. F'n Kansas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmarc117 Posted June 26, 2009 Share Posted June 26, 2009 Any cheating I've done has been with my wife's full fledged participation. Muck, you need to get outside more. F'n Kansas. a little late to the party........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Country Posted June 26, 2009 Share Posted June 26, 2009 Any cheating I've done has been with my wife's full fledged participation. Muck, you need to get outside more. F'n Kansas. Did you take Mary back to the room? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bushwacked Posted June 27, 2009 Share Posted June 27, 2009 Did you take Mary back to the room? The offer was open, but I've never done anything without my wife's explicit approval for nearly 20 years. I surely didn't do it last night. Mary was nice enough and nice enough looking, but the social interaction is enough for me to get whatever fantasized jollies I need. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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