Thunder Chicken Posted September 2, 2007 Share Posted September 2, 2007 clubby has been there, done that....back when we kicked saddam's ass the first time. Excellent. I thank you for your service before me. I was still in High School Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiegie Posted September 2, 2007 Share Posted September 2, 2007 I came to this thread at least a dozen times but I couldn't figure out what I wanted to say--but everytime I came, I said a prayer for you guys. Please take care, Club. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twiley Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 I'm very sorry to hear this and I echo many of the sentiments already stated. All the best and hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aqualung Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 I came to this thread at least a dozen times but I couldn't figure out what I wanted to say--but everytime I came, I said a prayer for you guys. Please take care, Club. +1 John No person should have this much on his plate. Been thinking and praying for you every night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isleseeya Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 +1 John No person should have this much on his plate. Been thinking and praying for you every night. another +1 ...at night i pray together with my children ( a childs prayer is very powerful ) and we are adding you and your family in our nightly prayer Hang tough Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darin3 Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 ps.... if you are free this weekend.. i would love to pay for your trip to vegas. Word. Our floor has your name on it. Either that, or I hear Bier is a terrific cuddler. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaP'N GRuNGe Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 I just want to wish you and your family all the best. I pray that your child will be born healthy and happy but if not I also pray that you will have the strength and love as a family to make it through any decisions you need to make our outcomes you need to deal with. There is a great group of people here who have expressed their thoughts and support much better than I ever could, but know that my thoughts are with you and I know that you will make it through all of this one step at a time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chargerz Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 Club, I now can see what tough times you're going through. I will be praying for you and your family. You also know that I'm available to answer any question you might have in the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big F'n Dave Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 Prayers to you and your family, Club. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yukon Cornelius Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 dude ...sorry to here all of that... hang in there ive had a bad run the last 5 years..... it gets better, you just have to play the cards u are dealt..... u have a righteous spirit .... you will get threw it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Holy Roller Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 With all the powerful thoughts and prayers being sent your way John I see no outcome other than FANTASTIC! My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours also. Can't wait to see the baby pics posted here next March. Money is highly overrated. Necessary (sorta like a kicker) but overrated. Everytime I pick up a grandchild I am healed. I'm glad for you and your wife's decision. Hang in there bro. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
broncosn05 Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 Wow Club. Not much else I can add that hasn't already been said. Just know I'll send some positive prayers and thoughts your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 I really can't add to what has already been said. My heart goes out to you and your family Club. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MojoMan Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Club, weve had our differences in the past but it's been over stupid crap likeVioxx and big spam. But that's all it was...crap compared to what's going on in your life now. Best of luck, keep strong, and persevere. I'm not religious so I'm sending you non-religious good vibes using my tinfoilhat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexgaddis Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 wow, what a powerful thread...Good luck with everything Club and keep us posted...I hope nothing but the best for you and your family... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T_bone65 Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Club, best of luck with everything my friend. You have perservered through a hell of a lot and will make it through this without a doubt. If there is anything I can do to help at all please feel free to ask. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage Beatings Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 I will remember you in my prayers Club (I promise)... prayers for strength of spirit so that you can be strong for your family when you all feel like you are at your limit... prayers for peace of mind so that you can balance reason and passion when making the hard decisions that you have to make... and prayers for inspiration for those around you, so that the right doors of opportunity can be open to you as you look for a new job. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BiggieFries Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 I can't seem to find a post, but Club, what do you do for a living? There might be a few people on this board that could probably help you out on the job front. Thoughts & best wishes still going out to you and your family, Club. Hang in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muck Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 ...seeing this for the first time just now... John ... that's some tough sledding. Glad to hear you're making progress. Our first pregnancy was all over the map ... docs asked us if we wanted an expensive Down's Indicator Test (or whatever it is called), and we decided the same as you ... if 'yes', nothing we could do about it. We didn't have the test either. So, on the "do I have the kid or not" front, realize that if the baby has Downs and you change your mind, you can always give the child up for adoption. Family members have given children up for adoption and others have adopted. It's a wonderful circle...and can make lots of people happy when there didn't seem to be good answers. Regarding the job stuff, is there any chance you could do some stuff on the nights / weekends now in advance of you training for your new gig? You have four months ... in some industries, that's enough to start your own home-based business...don't want to get you too side-tracked, but know that is true. Also, IIRC, Starbucks has benefits available for even part-time employees (not sure about family members, though). There are other employers out there that focus on the "benefits" side of things, rather than on the pay. So, maybe for a time, you could pull some extra hours at a business like this for benefits and pull some regular hours at a business that has good pay (but crappy benefits). Just a thought. Regarding your house ... if you do some extra stuff over the next 4 months or so for $$, that could / should give you a little extra wiggle room for holding on to your house until you get better prices. Regarding your insurance ... you may want to talk to the doctors and hospital about putting a cap on the total charges ... You don't want to be paying $450 / month for the next 25 years because you didn't negotiate a cap to the costs. Good luck and God Speed, John. I will tell Muckette and the Mucklets and we will be praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrTed46 Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 I am speechless Club. I thought I was going through a rough spell but it doesnt come close. My best wishes and prayers your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bill Swerski Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 There is nothing I can say that would or wouldn't help you as I am not in your shoes and cannot fathom what you and your wife must face here. All i can say is trust in faith. It doesn't have to be God, Jesus or any other major dogma just trust in faith. What ever you do just know it will be the right thing. +1 I don't really know what to say, but I think that Cliaz summed it up nicely. Have faith, stay positive, and do what you and your wife think is right. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cunning Linguist Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Club, i don't know what to add that hasn't already been said. You're in my thoughts brother, hang in there. We have friends who have a downs child and the kid was the best in the world for them. Sure it was tough on them in the beginning but they swear it made them better parents and people. Things have a way of working out, just hang in there and know you have a ton of support here as well as family and friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rbmcdonald Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Only thing I want to add is "sharpen the saw". Not knowing you, I do not know how applicable this is, but too me it is something that is so important, it is worth saying, over and over. The only way you and your wife can get through this, is with each other. Sometimes it is easy to put your romantic relationship with your spouse on hold. Children, jobs, finances, relatives can all seem to need each of you more than you need each other, but do not fall into that trap. Set aside time at least once a month, that is just you and your wife. For a weekend, if at all possible. You two are each others greatest source of strength, that is something you have to take time to nurture. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Controller Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Thoughts & prayers are with you, Club. Count me among the many who stand ready to help if at all possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PSULions Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 One of my favorite movies is "Facing the Giants" It is a great movie with football and the coach has his world crumbling around him while he and his wife are dealing with job, baby, etc.. If you haven't seen it, try and rent it, borrow it from a friend, etc. as both you and your wife will enjoy it. It is truly inspiritional and hopefully, will inspire you to tackle your multiple problems head on with the help of God. BTW, get some tissues as you will likely need them. As far as the other advice, just know that I will be sending prayers your way knowing the bad patch you are going through.... I will be thinking of you buddy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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