whomper Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 i was actually suggesting that she make herself a sammich ... That would take up valuable making sammiches for her husband time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonorator Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 That would take up valuable making sammiches for her husband time good point ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perchoutofwater Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 We really need pics before we can make a determination as to whether or not she deserves to get out of the house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted February 14, 2009 Author Share Posted February 14, 2009 We really need pics before we can make a determination as to whether or not she deserves to get out of the house. huddle tail gate group, I'll add u then u can see a couple of hubby pics Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 scooby you know I am just bustin. I enjoy your posts. Schedule a girls night out and have some fun. If he doesnt feel you deserve it he is wrong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pope Flick Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 there is only one thing you need to do to be a good wife. well... possibly two.... Seriously, Scooby - you need to set things straight with your hubby. It sounds like he takes your for granted and that is never a good thing. You may feel venting to folks here on the board, but you likely harbor some resentment regarding his behavior and that's just going to build over time. You can be a damned-good wife and demand some respect and equity all at the same time. very, very true JN, yes a little resentment, but I hate having those feelings, even when they're seemingly warranted. I just bury and try to keep the peace Careful - Jimmy needs 3 things... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy Neutron Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 Careful - Jimmy needs 3 things... Well, it is Valentine's Day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pope Flick Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 Well, it is Valentine's Day. But I at the fact that it doesn't need to be Valentine's Day for you to 'hit the trifecta' for lack of a better term. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeachBum Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 My hubby goes where he wants to, when he wants to, while I'm stuck at home with the kids...golf, bars, poker, you name it. It's pulling teeth if I want to go to Target by myself on the weekend. Woe is me Happy Valentine's Day, Scooby. Here's some perspective from a guy married 42 years (to the same woman). I always invite her to go to my poker games, watch football with the guys, go shoot some pool. She doesn't want to. So she invites me to go to lunch with her girlfriends, I really don't want to, so she goes alone. Or go to Target; or go to "Steel Magnolias", or something. This way we're always including the other one, knowing he/she doesn't want to, and frees us to do our thing. So either try asking if you can go play golf next time, or invite him to go to a Tupperware party with you. Once you determine you each have unique wants, go 'em alone. BUT of course still do "things" together! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtomicCEO Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 I don't want to sound sexist, but I think you should probably cook more pork products and wear more exotic lingerie. Then he'd be more likely to hang around on weekends. Also, stop nagging him all the time, you harpie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted February 14, 2009 Author Share Posted February 14, 2009 I don't want to sound sexist, but I think you should probably cook more pork products and wear more exotic lingerie. Then he'd be more likely to hang around on weekends. Also, stop nagging him all the time, you harpie. the house is chock full of bacon & lace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtomicCEO Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 the house is chock full of bacon & lace I would buy a porno titled "Bacon and Lace". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted February 14, 2009 Author Share Posted February 14, 2009 I would buy a porno titled "Bacon and Lace". a fitting title! by the way, just took the kids to Target, got him some Bose earphones for his ipod for valentine's day....guess what he's doing today--tee time at noon let's hope it rains, 30% chance this afternoon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Cid Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 a fitting title! by the way, just took the kids to Target, got him some Bose earphones for his ipod for valentine's day....guess what he's doing today--tee time at noon let's hope it rains, 30% chance this afternoon Never wish rain on a golfer. It doesn't stop them from playing and they just end up getting sick and annoying you further. I do think that you need to have a discussion though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoJoTheWebToedBoy Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 the house is chock full of bacon & lace Dump the bum and give me a call.... How you doin... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiegie Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 guess what he's doing today--tee time at noon what a dipsh|t Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLAYER Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 (edited) Scooby not really one to give advice on relatonships, but from past experience the looky but no touchy approach use to always get my attention that I flucked up somewhere. and yes you really do need to have a discussion. Edited February 14, 2009 by SLAYER Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted February 15, 2009 Author Share Posted February 15, 2009 hubby's back & cooked dinner, now I'm just trying to decide b/t electric blue, pink & brown, or innocent white Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy Neutron Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 :divingboard: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursa Majoris Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 :divingboard: +1. Boing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocknrobn26 Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 Happy Valentine's Day, Scooby. Here's some perspective from a guy married 42 years (to the same woman). I always invite her to go to my poker games, watch football with the guys, go shoot some pool. She doesn't want to. So she invites me to go to lunch with her girlfriends, I really don't want to, so she goes alone. Or go to Target; or go to "Steel Magnolias", or something. This way we're always including the other one, knowing he/she doesn't want to, and frees us to do our thing. So either try asking if you can go play golf next time, or invite him to go to a Tupperware party with you. Once you determine you each have unique wants, go 'em alone. BUT of course still do "things" together! Good stuff Beach! 37 years here come June. hubby's back & cooked dinner, now I'm just trying to decide b/t electric blue, pink & brown, or innocent white Hawt!!!!! BUT....I think you should show him this post! (Mostly men commenting, Atomic accepted!) As we who replied are in your favor, Scooby...I know what you look like. You are one hot lady. The replies here are men! Show it to him! Do not "Gunny sack your feelings!". Love ya sweetie! But your hubby has to know your feelings! Do it now or pay later! I hope and pray you two work it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikesVikes Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 Scooby, it's unfortunate that you like football as much or more than your husband does. Otherwise you could schedule a few of those couple showers conflicting with opening week of the NFL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazinib1 Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 hubby's back & cooked dinner, now I'm just trying to decide b/t electric blue, pink & brown, or innocent white innocent white is always a crowd pleaser Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big John Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 \(Mostly men commenting, Atomic accepted!) You are accepting Atomic by unignoring him now? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ts Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 If more husband & wife together time activities are really what's desired here, maybe Scooby could plan a "wine & scanner party" or perhaps a "couples shower" or some such ... I'm sure either of those would be a big hit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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