Crazysight Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 (edited) So I've been chatting with this woman on and off for about 2 years now. She's 29, I'm 31. Never had kids, never been married. Lately things have gotten a bit more serious between herself and I. She's called me a couple times, we spent an entire night chatting about a week or so ago, left erotic messages in each others emails, and just today she left me her home phone number in my email. I called and left a message on her voice mail. She does have some plans for the future as she's one year away from getting her associates degree in accounting at the university of new hampshire, though I don't know how exactly she plans to make the transition from the world of stripping to the "normal" world. She's told me in the past that she's never done drugs or anything like that either, as I know there are some who have had those problems. Is also a big sox fan...used to date some guy in their farm system. I just recently graduated from school myself and have started working as an RN. At this point I'm basically looking to find a significant other whom I can have a stable long-term relationship with as well as someone whom I'm attracted to. The attraction part is no issue with this woman, but her background as a stripper makes me leary. I'm wondering what other people here have to say or think about the value of strippers. I'm particularly interested in hearing about other people's experiences. Do you think that they're all bad news when you get down to it? Is it possible for a woman to transition from that "field" into being a good wife and mother? So huddle up! What's the play call here? Do I go deep, just play the flats, or run for my life? Edited August 3, 2007 by Crazysight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmarc117 Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 most strippers are looney tunes.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evil_gop_liars Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Can't make a decision with out pics... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiegie Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 (edited) the phrase "stable long-term relationship" just doesn't seem to go with the word "stripper" (although the phrase "working on my associates degree" does go with the word "stripper") If you are questioning the whole thing from the beginning, I'd be inclined to advise you to walk away from the whole thing before it even starts. Edited August 3, 2007 by wiegie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazysight Posted August 3, 2007 Author Share Posted August 3, 2007 Can't make a decision with out pics... Can we post pics in this forum? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ABearWithFurniture Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 the phrase "stable long-term relationship" just doesn't seem to go with the word "stripper" (although the phrase "working on my associates degree" does go with the word "stripper") If you are questioning the whole thing from the beginning, I'd be inclined to advise you to walk away from the whole thing before it even starts. Are you kidding me?...didn't you ever see the movie 'Trading Places...Jamie Lee Curtis was hot and they looked like they were having a great long-term relationship there at the end... oh, wait, she was a whore in that movie...nevermind Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Country Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Can we post pics in this forum? Pos em on photobucket then leave the link. But if they are inappropriate you'll be banned. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazysight Posted August 3, 2007 Author Share Posted August 3, 2007 (edited) Most of the better ones would be deemed inappropriate, but this one is good: Pics Edited August 3, 2007 by Crazysight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazysight Posted August 3, 2007 Author Share Posted August 3, 2007 (edited) Are you kidding me?...didn't you ever see the movie 'Trading Places...Jamie Lee Curtis was hot and they looked like they were having a great long-term relationship there at the end... oh, wait, she was a whore in that movie...nevermind No but I saw 'Pretty Woman"...but she was a whore, too. Edited August 3, 2007 by Crazysight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evil_gop_liars Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Most of the better ones would be deemed inappropriate, but this one is good: Pic I wouldn't want you to post any inappropriately deemed pictures. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChuckB Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 I wouldn't want you to post any inappropriately deemed pictures. Yeah that would be pretty messed up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazysight Posted August 3, 2007 Author Share Posted August 3, 2007 lol...got u...please give me a minute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazysight Posted August 3, 2007 Author Share Posted August 3, 2007 (edited) the phrase "stable long-term relationship" just doesn't seem to go with the word "stripper" (although the phrase "working on my associates degree" does go with the word "stripper") If you are questioning the whole thing from the beginning, I'd be inclined to advise you to walk away from the whole thing before it even starts. I am questioning it from the beginning, but only because she is a stirpper and for that reason alone am leary, not for any other reason particular to herself that I've picked up on through our conversations. She has otherwise seemed to be rather normal to me. Edited August 3, 2007 by Crazysight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Holy Roller Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 From what I can tell, if you wanted to be an astronaut you shouldn't marry a stripper (from Independence Day) and go YouTube Chris Rock's wisdom on girls that became strippers. Otherwise, if she really, really, really loves you, it's OK. And Pretty Woman wasn't a whore, she got paid for it so she was a professional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursa Majoris Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 I am questioning it from the beginning, but only because she is a stirpper and for that reason alone am leary, not for any other reason particular to herself that I've picked up on thoruogh our conversations. She has otherwise seemed to be rather normal to me. Of course she's normal. Ignore the naysayers, run with it and see where it goes - you shouldn't be measuring her up as a "wife and mother" yet anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexgaddis Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Please send me other pics in the form of a personal message Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perchoutofwater Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Please send me other pics in the form of a personal message +1 Oh, and I dated a stripper for a while. It's not what it is cracked up to be. I would probably advise against it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McNasty Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Wait, yer a Nurse? Did you even think about taking the Medical Boards? Not everyone who strips is a crackhead, or a nutjob. Just snjoy your time with her and see where it leads. If you haven't even met her yet, I think planning a long-term stable realtionship is a little premature. Oh, and PM me the other pics, too, please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bill Swerski Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 I dated an artist about seven years ago and regretted it. I imagine that the average stripper wouldn't be any better. Then again, not every stripper is a morally-deficient mental case with a coke problem. So perhaps there's some hope... and there's nothing wrong with giving it a shot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackshi17 Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 If you have to ask....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bier Meister Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 naughty girls need love too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
satelliteoflovegm Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 I too enjoy pictures... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duchess Jack Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Please Migro.... or is that Migro Please. I am so unhip. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duchess Jack Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 I dated an artist about seven years ago and regretted it. I imagine that the average stripper wouldn't be any better. Then again, not every stripper is a morally-deficient mental case with a coke problem. So perhaps there's some hope... and there's nothing wrong with giving it a shot. I can see where at cat like you and an artist would not mix too well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cre8tiff Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 I say give it a try, as long as she is out of that business. I have known a couple of real independent types who supported themselves stripping through college (yes, they were artists). They have families and regular jobs now. Not everyone is a crackhead or mental case that does this. That being said, you need to be a pretty open minded guy to get past history like that. If you can't deal with the fact she HAS BEEN a stripper, then get the sex and get out. Oh and PM. Screw the metaphore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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