jaxfactor Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Just got a call from one of my sisters(I have 3) that one of my sisters in Chicago is in the hospital with pneumonia. She's an alcoholic and has had a couple close calls with her pancreas shutting down, etc. My family thought she was on the road to recovery but I knew better. I could tell when having conversations with her that she was still drinking. Now she has pneumonia and her belly is filling with fluid, pressing on her lungs. They have her sedated and a mask forcing oxygen into her. They are giving her antibiotics to fight off the pneumonia but they're not yet sure if it is a bacterial form of pneumonia or not. Her liver is about shot. Sound familiar? My other sister that lives in Batavia has been at Northwestern Hospital and talking with the doctors. She asked if someone needs to stay there with her and the doctors said no. That's a good sign. I know she brought the liver problems on herself, but if I could just ask y'all to keep her in your thoughts and prayers, I'd appreciate it. What's with me and alcoholics anyway? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HowboutthemCowboys Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Done. Good luck Jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donutrun Jellies Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Jax, your family and you are in our prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 We all have our problems. I mean I never understood the alcohlic problem but it is for sure a real thing that effects, (affects), tons of people of every walk of life. Good, bad and everywhere inbetween. I try not to be very judgemental toward them as I don't walk in thier shoes any more then they walk in mine. Anyway, yes indeed my thoughts and prayers are headed your sisters way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chief Dick Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Dang jax. Positive vibes to your sister. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuke'em ttg Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Prayer added Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chargerz Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Thoughts and prayers coming your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
'canes2004 Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Jax, you've had a rough year for sure. Vibes and thoughts for you my man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbimm Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Thoughts and prayers coming from the Big Easy. I understand the battle that many fight with alcohol and hope your sister wins hers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alchico Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Prayers and good vibes for you and your sister. Alcoholics won't change until they hit Their bottom, maybe this will be hers. When she recovers from this hopefully she'll see the light and change her life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Prayers sent Jax. Keep us posted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocknrobn26 Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Prayers and the best of wishes to your sister and family, Jax! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BiggieFries Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Thoughts going out to you and your sister. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage Beatings Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 WIll definitely be praying for your Sister. I hope she can make a full recovery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dabuffbills Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Thoughts and prayers on the way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rajncajn Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Man Jax, not a good time for you at all. P&GV on the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaxfactor Posted January 21, 2008 Author Share Posted January 21, 2008 Thanks all. I thought all the bad chit was behind me in 2007. Looks like 2008 didn't start out too well afterall. Just got an update and it's not good. Her oxygen level is back to 100%, but her heart is not pumping the way it should. They're thinking the fluid buildup in her abdomen is pressing against her heart. Also believe the fluid buildup is caused by her liver being unable to process it. Yet when asked if family should start coming to see her, the Drs. replied, "no". I'm still going to at least tell the PO to keep me on standby for emergency leave. I hope and pray that I don't have to use it. Besides, it's too damn cold in Chi-Town this time of year for this Florida boy. I'm praying that she gets one more chance and that this will finally wake her up to go get professional help. She's still in ICU at this point and I really wish I could talk to her. She calls me every other Sunday during football season and I knew something was up when she didn't. I tried calling her but always seem to get her voice mail. Keep the T&P coming heavy at this point all. I need to keep the positive vibes going myself but it's really difficult. The other alcoholic in my life(the ex SO) finally committed herself to a local rehab facility. She's already been through detox and is now about a week into a 30 day rehab program. Here's hoping she finally wakes up also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isleseeya Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 keep the faith Jax ..prayers and good wishes going you and your families way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muck Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Ugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bier Meister Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 my thoughts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Holy Roller Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 (edited) keep the faith Jax ..prayers and good wishes going you and your families way Adding some more prayers. Edited January 21, 2008 by The Holy Roller Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziachild007 Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Thoughts and prayers for you and your sister, Jax. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaxfactor Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 Well, I guess I didn't realize the seriousness of the situation. I got a call less than an hour ago from my brother in law. He explained that my sister is being kept alive but that even if they got her heart started again she'd be a vegetable. As he cried(Never heard him cry) he held the phone to my sister's ear and let me say my goodbyes. Man, this is tough. My oldest sister will be giving the order shorty not to resesitate. At least I know my mom and dad are there waiting for her. Just wanted to let y'all know because I won't be around for about a week with no PC access. I will be leaving for Chicago probably some time tomorrow. Man, this is hard. She's only 49 years old. Was so hard to accept and say my goodbyes but I asked her to give mom and dad a big hug for me and that I'll see her again. I'll read any well wishes when I get back and don't fret it if you didn't see my post as the first I heard of this was last night. I appreciate your thoughts and prayers and ask for good vibes for mine and my other sister's safe trip to Chicago. I have one sis that lives here in Jax. I can't help myself as I'm crying like a baby. Was very close to her and other sis here in Jax as we were the youngest 3 of 7. Peace and I'll talk to y'all next week. Jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildcat2334 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 wow- so sorry to hear that- best wishes to your family and stay strong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Hang in there Jax. She is headed to a better place with out the suffering. You and you sister be safe on your trip to the cold. You and your entire family are in my T&P's. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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