MikesVikes Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 There's this one time in Bangkok... ...Get Thai'd! You're talking to a tourist Whose every move's among the purest I get my kicks above the waistline, sunshine One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble Not much between despair and ecstasy One night in Bangkok and the tough guys tumble Can't be too careful with your company I can feel the devil walking next to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big John Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 There's this one time in Bangkok... ...Get Thai'd! You're talking to a tourist Whose every move's among the purest I get my kicks above the waistline, sunshine One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble Not much between despair and ecstasy One night in Bangkok and the tough guys tumble Can't be too careful with your company I can feel the devil walking next to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yo mama Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 In all seriousness, I have been in spots with 'other women' that have started innocently enough that have turned into a vortex of sexual tension real quick.. Made it out of some of them, some I did not.. Best to just avoid putting myself in those situations.. Which is what I have been doing for the past several years.. If mere sexual tension is a crime, then we're all guilty. Well, at least the attractive people. I don't even know what line you cross to enter into "emotional affair" territory. I suppose it would be sharing intimate feelings and thoughts with another person that would normally be reserved for your spouse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Country Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 I would think so too, but I would also say that it probably would have something to do with the conversations that were being had. If they were just confiding in each other I don't see much of a problem with that. If he/she were just looking for some insight from a person other than their spouse in personal matters I don't see what difference it makes. If the conversations were more playful/sexual in content then I think it would just be a matter of time & opportunity before it turned more physical. The first is my idea of the "workplace spouse". The latter is the emotional affair, with the flirting, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swampnuts Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 How many guys aren't answering because they're afraid their wife monitors the boards? Wimmens are sneaky like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugar Magnolia Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Most women take hour to say something that can be said in ten minutes, and half of what is said, guys really just don't give two chits about. So, If I'm going to listen to a woman describe her day to me, and tell me all about so and so that I don't know, and the problems that they are having, I'm getting laid, or working on getting laid. I'm sure not going to do it for the hell of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irish Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 She called me T_Boner dude...that was irish... Took the words right out of my mouth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Country Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Took the words right out of my mouth. Admit it, words weren't the only thing in your mouth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azazello1313 Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 I don't even know what line you cross to enter into "emotional affair" territory. I suppose it would be sharing intimate feelings and thoughts with another person that would normally be reserved for your spouse. I think a pretty simple line to draw, for me, would be if you are thinking about them more and/or sharing more with them than your spouse. like this one couple we know that are going through a divorce right now. he was involved in an "emotional affair" that he swears never went any further. this guy went through a cancer scare a few years ago, and has to get regular checkups to make sure everything's kosher. well, from cell phone records, she could tell that after he got positive news from his last checkup, he called the "emotional affair" chick before he called his soon-to-be-ex-wife. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmarc117 Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Took the words right out of my mouth. took what out of yer mouth? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikesVikes Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 My family decided we should watch the movie Obsessed this weekend. Watch out for the temporary office staff. They're trouble. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh 0ne Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Sometimes I cry when I masturbate. Is that an emotional affair? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh 0ne Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Oh, and sometimes my wife cries when we have sex. Does that count? I always thought they were tears of joy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skylive5 Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 How many guys aren't answering because they're afraid their wife monitors the boards? Wimmens are sneaky like that. Huh. I was taking this as DW is involved "emotionally" with someone and wanted to know if it was going to be detrimental to her marriage. And of course it will be. While I have never had an "emotional affair" I would think that they probably exist as "emotional affairs" are nothing more than big time flirting and setting of ground rules for the "actual affair". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H8tank Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 I'm just sayin'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irish Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Admit it, words weren't the only thing in your mouth When I threw that softball up there I almost deleted it and wrote something else but I was interested to see who would be the first to comment. You were on a short list of dark-horses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursa Majoris Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Sometimes I cry when I masturbate. Is that an emotional affair? I keep telling you that sandpaper is going to hurt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cameltosis Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 When you dont feel comfortable telling your spouse the nature of a relationship, whatever you want to labe that relationship as, it isnt right. I would think that line is different for everyone, but if you arent sure if its right, it probably isnt. Probably why Twileys avatars are ruining my marriage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimC Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 When I drop my pants, they usually start crying...and laughing. Does that count? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikesVikes Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 When I drop my pants, they usually start crying...and laughing. Does that count? They made that into a show. link Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 A physical affair would be a pretty gut wrenching betrayal IMO. An emotional affair would be pretty unbearable as well. I read an emotional affair as you sort of falling for another person and making an innapropriate connection with someone. When I went to Ohio and had a torrid 3 day affair with Steelbunz it was physical and emotional.. I hit an exacta. She nixed me on the trifecta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimC Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 They made that into a show. link That's why I wear tennis shoes 4 sizes too small....to make me appear gigantic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteelBunz Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 A physical affair would be a pretty gut wrenching betrayal IMO. An emotional affair would be pretty unbearable as well. I read an emotional affair as you sort of falling for another person and making an innapropriate connection with someone. When I went to Ohio and had a torrid 3 day affair with Steelbunz it was physical and emotional.. I hit an exacta. She nixed me on the trifecta Oh man......lol. I'm not sure whether a statement like this will have everyone booking flights to Columbus......or never coming here.....lol. And thanks you guys......now I sound like an emotional slut/tease. I'm touched.....lol. :sigh: And I refuse to answer the original question on grounds of emotional incrimination. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Country Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Oh man......lol. I'm not sure whether a statement like this will have everyone booking flights to Columbus......or never coming here.....lol. And thanks you guys......now I sound like an emotional slut/tease. I'm touched.....lol. :sigh: And I refuse to answer the original question on grounds of emotional incrimination. Sounds like you were.... many times over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 very good topic, and lol!! I don't think it's an emotional affair when we all just chat about fantasy football or our crazy kids, etc. etc. It's all good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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