Menudo Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Dog lovers will understand what I'm about to write, others might think it is a bit dramatic. Today, our 10 year old Golden Retriever, Bettis was taken to the vet. This morning, he fell over and wouldn't get up. He wasn't responding to me, so, I carried him into the car and we took him to the vet. At the Vet's office, he went through moments where he seemed better, walking and wagging his tail, then others where he seemed lethargic, laying on the ground. The vet came in, and his temperature was normal, but, she was concerned that his gums were pale. She did x-rays on him, and no tumors were found, which is a good thing. She said his liver looked slightly enlarged, but, she didn't seem too concerned about that. She then told us that something was wrong with the dog, and she recommended that we keep him in the hospital for a couple of days. They will do blood work, an ekg for his heart, and other tests. She said that he is an older dog, and that we should prepare for the worst, but, hope for the best. She told us to say goodbye to him, just in case, as she knows that something is wrong with him. This dog has meant everything to me. As many of you know, I have had a tough last 6 years, losing my Dad, my Grandfather & Grandmother. I've also had issues with panic attacks and anxiety. Bettis was more comfort to me than I can ever express. He honestly was the perfect dog. Saying my "just in case" goodbye to him today was one of the hardest things I've ever done. My wife is a mess, but, seeing my 4.5 year old son crying and saying good-bye to his buddy was gut-wrenching to say the least. When they tried to take him from us, he pulled so hard that two of the dr.'s couldn't get him to leave my side. I had to walk alongside them so that he would go. Now, we are home, and we are trying our best to do what the Vet told us to do. We are preparing ourselves for the worst and hoping for the best. I never knew it was possible to love a dog as much as I do this one. I'm praying that he comes home to us in two days and that we can enjoy more time with him. If not, I will take comfort in the fact that we gave that dog a wonderful life. He was well taken care of and treated as part of our family. As always, thanks for giving me a place to vent my feelings. I'm not afraid to admit that I am an extremely emotional guy, and this morning has been very tough. I will keep everyone posted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocknrobn26 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 My best thoughts are w/ you, your family, and Bettis. Been there too many times. Keep us updated, when you find the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big John Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Toughest parts of having a dog, Hoping for the best that he will return to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chief Dick Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Toughest parts of having a dog, Yep. Been through this many times as well. Prayers to you Menudo and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whoopazz Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Good vibes for Bettis and family coming from Wake Forest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh B Tool Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Best to you and yours Menudo. Sort of going through the same thing with my 12 year old dog right now. Just knowing he will be gone much sooner than later chokes me up. Best of luck brother Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 prayers sent to Bettis Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puddy Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Sorry to hear Menudo. Hope he gets better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolverines Fan Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Prayers for Bettis coming from the Chicago 'burbs. Hoping for the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tosberg34 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 I know exactly what your are going thru and I hope that he makes a full recovery and continues to bring joy and happiness to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 prayers sent to Bettis +1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazinib1 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 prayers sent to Bettis +2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gilthorp Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Same thing happened to me about a year ago. It was scary, and we came out OK. Hopefully it's minor, and they'll tell you what he needs and you'll be as fortunate as we were. Good luck - never an easy thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursa Majoris Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Toughest parts of having a dog, Hoping for the best that he will return to you. Or any pet. My thoughts too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Footballjoe Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Wishing the best for Bettis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muck Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Man, that really stinks. If it's his time, it's his time ... and in time, you'll find another dog to fill your live and your hearts. If it's not his time, cherish the moments you all will have together. Good luck parenting your son through this stressfull time for both of you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnlava Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Wishing thoughts of the best of health for Bettis. I had to put my 14 year old cat down awhile back. Hardest thing I've ever had to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetsfan Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Hoping the best for you guys. Losing your dog totally sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caveman_Nick Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 T&P from here bud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonorator Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 prayers for bettis and your family. hang in there marc ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chargerz Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I'm hoping for the best for you and your dog. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loaf Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Oh man, best out to you...huge dog lover... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricrelish Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Good vibes to your doggie. My pug is 15 and and a half. She has trouble walking without falling. I've had a few time where she couldn't get up and I remember how scared I was, but luckily she kept going. Again, good vibes to your doggie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seattle LawDawg Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Hang in there. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frenzal rhomb Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Best wishes - hope it all works out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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