Sugar Magnolia Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Have had symptoms of "abonormal bleeding" in the women's area for about a month. Tests came back today with an abnormally thick endometrium and abnormal cells in the cervix which could mean cancer of the uterus. I am pretty scared right now, and an anxious person as it is. Biopsy can't be done for three weeks, and then another 7-10 days of waiting for results. This will be a long 5 weeks for me. Any advice from y'all on how to keep myself positive, busy, and distracted would be great. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiegie Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 First thing you should know is that you are going to have pretty much all of us sending you prayers (or good vibes or whatever). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaP'N GRuNGe Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Not much advice other than turn to Chargerz here for some info. Otherwise just prayers and good vibes that everything turns out OK for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteelBunz Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Yep....first talk to Chargerz. Second....come have lunch with me Friday! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muck Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Keep busy. Schedule something early in each day that you need to keep (depression can keep you in bed far longer than you want it to). Spend lots of time outside (b vitamins are good for the emotions). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buddahj Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 First thing you should know is that you are going to have pretty much all of us sending you prayers (or good vibes or whatever). what he said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Prayers sent. Big + 1 on talking with Chargerz. He is the best. Lunch with Bunz should take your mind of things. She is the best too. Try and think positive and know we are all here for you if you need us Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
untateve Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 I'll keep you in my thoughts. Aside from that, there is no magic regarding keeping positive/busy/distracted. What might work for one person might not work for another. Spending time with friends, reading, immersing yourself in work, doing a home project, etc. are all suggestions. The suggestion to get out of your home is a good one and something you should do every day. When one is worried or depressed, just sitting inside can add to those feelings, almost like the walls are closing in on you. So at a minimum, go for a walk each day or if you like to exercise, get to the gym each day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramhock Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Find some children to spend time with. Get your mind right to fight the good fight and kick the arse of whatever is messing with you. All the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Holy Roller Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 First thing you should know is that you are going to have pretty much all of us sending you prayers (or good vibes or whatever). Absolutely! Prayers every morning from Missouri on the way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEC=UGA Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Sending you well wishes and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BillyBalata Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 I prescribe 4-5 hours on the golf course every day for the next month. You'll have my prayers and good vibes every day in the mean time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby's Hubby Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Sounds like we need The Wolf to go ahead and post his losing bet, a pic in his wife's outfit. Maybe that will cheer you up for a little while. I am gonna PM him to have it ready by your ladies' league draft day. I hope he goes with high heels. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonorator Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 first, you gotta get the data. this could probably be many things. i know that's easy to say and probably doesn't help the worrying. being with others, volunteering, exercising are all great ideas for keeping you engaged until then. the fact that modern medicine is so amazing is hopefully a bit of comfort. in the past few years my mom has kicked breast cancer's ass and had her hip replaced. she's battled through it all with the help of some great doctors and is now back out in her garden after having just turned 70. our family will be praying for you and do hook up with chargerz asap. he can at least start sharing some data immediately to hopefully help remove some of the fear of the unknown ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
borge007 Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Remember the power of positive thinking. Prayers sent(they work!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 So very sorry to hear of this, prayers sent for you. My sister had the same exact thing--or thereabouts; she had displasia, thickening of the endomentrium, enlarged uterus, fibroids, and endured a year or so of abnormal bleeding that you have gone thru. She had an endometrial biopsy, then proceeded to have a laproscopically-assisted hysterectomy in June, which was a very easy recovery for her. She is 41. I'm sure everything will be fine and definitely treatable. Try not to worry, it is easier said than done, watch some funny movies, read some long books that can help u take your mind off of things for awhile. Take care friend:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big John Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Sending you well wishes and prayers. same here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage Beatings Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 I'll remember you in my prayers. I would say this... that knowledge is power. Take one or two of the upcoming weeks and just research and read as much as you can on the subject. But be prepared that this might make you feel worse... still I think its important. Then, for the rest of the time that you are waiting, just try to let it go. Take a vacation if you have some time... fill up your mind with anything and everything else if you can (which might be a lot easier said than done). Know that we are praying for you and that God is hearing us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puddy Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Hoping for the best Meredith. I too am somewhat anxious about things like that. Good luck to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Irish Doggy Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 All the best SM. Lunch with a friend, seeing a movie, a good walk all help me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whomper Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Have had symptoms of "abonormal bleeding" in the women's area for about a month. Tests came back today with an abnormally thick endometrium and abnormal cells in the cervix which could mean cancer of the uterus. I am pretty scared right now, and an anxious person as it is. Biopsy can't be done for three weeks, and then another 7-10 days of waiting for results. This will be a long 5 weeks for me. Any advice from y'all on how to keep myself positive, busy, and distracted would be great. Thanks. Just curious sugar. Is there a medical reason for this or is this just the soonest they can schedule you ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Cid Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 No suggestions other than to try and keep yourself busy. This may be a good time to take on projects you've been putting off. As stated before, we got your back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matt770 Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 (edited) My wife had similar symptoms when we were first dating and it turned out to be fibroids. She had them removed which is a pretty routine procedure and she was good as new after that. Hoping the same is true for you, or even something less troublesome. Prayers sent. ETA: Regarding the stress and taking your mind off it, my wife and I have been going to a lot of movies lately, especially comedies. Laughing for a couple hours together takes our minds off things here. Edited August 25, 2010 by matt770 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chief Dick Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Not much to add to the good advice here. Just sending positive vibes your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Posted August 25, 2010 Share Posted August 25, 2010 Sending all the good vibes I can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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